Your target is proving as slippery as soap in the bath. The harder you try, the less success you seem to get. Make less effort. Be less bothered. Resolve to stop chasing opportunity and just wait until it comes along and presents itself to you. Will this ever happen? That depends on whether it's really an opportunity that you need to take advantage of. If it is, a magnetic, natural process of attraction will occur. If it isn't, you'll be better off without whatever it is that you now want. Either way, you may as well relax.